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My Thoughts on the Books I Read!

Think Again - The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know

Author: Adam Grant Publication Date: February 2021
2022-01-30 1 min read Sincheenz

A good book to start the year 2022 with!

In the last couple of months, it has become an almost impossible task to have a peaceful gathering with friends or family. The multitude of lockdowns has made it impossible to meet and even when we meet it seems like an event to dread where Vaccination and Government policy seems to be the dominant topic. What starts as a discussion often turns into a yelling match between some and leaves everybody else frustrated. Think again is a must-read for anyone who thinks that there is only one right answer, or only one way things have to be done. Adam grant puts it accurately ““ we often get into the preacher, prosecutor, and politician mode and try to convince the other party. I enjoyed reading the book and will pause, listen and reconsider both in personal and professional life.

© 2026 Sindhuja Cheema Enzinger. All Rights Reserved.

Influence - The Psychology of Persuasion

Author: Robert B Cialdini Publication Date: May 2021
2021-01-12 2 min read Sincheenz

This book was recommended on the Freakonomics podcast. I liked the interview, so I went ahead and bought the book.

Several situations in daily life leave you frustrated, and this book explains well why you felt that way. The author introduces several principles of persuasion, such as:

  • Reciprocity: When you receive something as a gift or favor, you feel compelled or obliged to reciprocate. A tactic used by many who give away free samples.
  • Commitment: Agreeing to something publicly will make you act on it. For example, when you declare on social media that you are doing a 30-day challenge of push-ups, you might tend to follow it through.
  • Social Proof: Looking to others to decide how to behave when uncertain. Looking to others’ behavior is often shown in candid camera videos’how people just follow absurd behavior not to seem different, like standing up to a beep in a doctor’s waiting room. Also, when making a choice, you often look at reviews and ratings. Seeing more stars gives you a positive feeling about the product, company, or professional.
  • Following Authority: If someone in authority makes a recommendation, you tend to believe it must be correct. For example, a doctor’s endorsement of a medicine’that’s why most actors in pharma ads wear white coats.
  • Influence by People Who Are Attractive, Similar, or Friendly: You feel a sense of trust because they seem similar to you and can’t be wrong. Professionals often use this tactic, saying things like, “If it were my kid, husband, etc., I would definitely do it.” or “if it was for my house, I would buy it”
  • Limited Editions: When items are limited or perceived as rare, their value tends to go up. “Only 2 left - grab now!”.

The effectiveness of these principles, of course, depends on the situation and audience. After reading this book, you become more aware and tell yourself to pause and reflect, focus on facts, and not let your emotions take hold or fall for manipulative tactics.

© 2026 Sindhuja Cheema Enzinger. All Rights Reserved.